A reflection on the power of the reframe, inspired by my dad’s final Saturday—a day we now call his “bonus day.” In the face of grief, we found light. This post explores how shifting perspective can turn pain into something sacred.

A simple Sunday cracked open something big: my 10-year-old is stepping into independence. From making his own lunch to meeting friends at the park, Owen is growing—and I’m learning to meet this moment with trust, not just structure.

We hit pause for a true spring break—unplugging, road-tripping through Texas Hill Country, and embracing unexpected detours. From caves and card games to art shows and bookstores, it was a week of joy, wonder, and sweet family connection.

Mardi Gras runs deep in my soul. From childhood parades on my dad’s shoulders to college days on the route with family, it’s pure magic—music, food, and tradition. Today, my heart is in New Orleans, celebrating from afar, sending love to my mom. 💜💚💛

“Use your wits." My dad, Owen Hopkins, said it every morning, and now I say it to my kids. Today, on Owen Hopkins Rocks Day, I honor his legacy—his love for geology, learning, and adventure. And in a universe wink, today also marks 33 years of my mom’s sobriety. 💛

Feeling the Winter Blues? You’re Not Alone.

February always tests me—the gray skies, the cold, the sluggishness. I didn’t even realize how much it was weighing on me until a friend called me out. This weekend, I took my own advice: I got outside, moved my body, connected with people, and showed up for my community. My winter blues aren’t gone, but I feel lighter—like spring is peeking through. If you’re feeling it too, let’s not wait for the season to change before we do. 🌿

Our family’s first Secret Kindness Week brought unexpected joy—small acts of care, like a made bed, a surprise gift, and breakfast in bed. It also led us into our 12th wedding anniversary, a reminder that love isn’t just in grand gestures but in everyday kindness. Jim and I have built a life filled with laughter, learning, and growth. As I reflect on this week, I’m overwhelmed with gratitude—for him, for our kids, and for the beautiful, ordinary moments that mean everything.

For years, I operated in environments driven by fear—tight deadlines, high stakes, constant pressure. Then I realized: I had a choice. I could lead with love instead. That shift changed everything—how I lead, how I connect, and how I show up in the world.

A tribute to my bold, loving Grandma Jayne on her birthday—a reflection on intuition, connection, and the enduring power of love. Her spirit lives on, reminding us to embrace the divine in everyday moments and cherish the threads that bind us across time.

When I took a leap of faith to embrace a more purpose-driven life, certain books became my guideposts—offering wisdom, courage, and connection. Recently, a transformative podcast reignited that spark and inspired me to share this list of the works that shaped me.

Each year, our family gathers to set meaningful goals together. This year, with input from the kids, we’ve created a list that feels both ambitious and exciting. From Sunday adventures to acts of kindness, here’s how we’re staying connected and accountable in 2025. Plus, a customizable annual goals template available in my Etsy shop.

On this day in 2022, I walked away from a career I’d poured decades into—without a mapped-out plan or a full-time job lined up. For someone who thrives on structure, it was the scariest decision I’d ever made. But it was also the clearest decision my heart had ever made.

Since then, I’ve embraced the power of small, intentional steps—1% changes—and the impact they can have over time. Today, I celebrate this leap and reflect on the ripples it’s created—professionally and personally.

The Morning 5 Checklists are now available on Etsy. Checkout the suite of color options and varieties for little ones and chores.

As 2024 comes to a close, I’m sharing a nostalgic reflection from my childhood—one that might just spark the revival of a beloved family tradition and inspire connections for the next generation of Schell cousins.

This Christmas felt different—quieter, slower, and filled with reflection. In the absence of my beloved father-in-law, we honored his memory through thoughtful, handmade gifts that brought comfort and connection. From shared family traditions to moments of gratitude, this post reflects on the love and magic that make the holidays truly meaningful.

Discover how a dreaded chore turned into a meaningful family tradition of giving. This simple act of sharing backyard pecans sparked joy, connection, and a new way to give during the holidays. Read the full story and get inspired to start your own tradition of connection.

Are you a weaver at heart? In this post, I explore the beauty of life’s interconnectedness and the magic of turning sparks of ideas, relationships, and experiences into a vibrant tapestry. Inspired by conversations, personal reflection, and the hummingbird as a symbol of cross-pollination, this post invites you to pause and consider the threads weaving through your life. From navigating unexpected challenges (like a concussion!) to rediscovering my purpose, this piece is about trusting the process, embracing creativity, and finding joy in the art of connection. Discover what it means to be a weaver and let your sparks light the way!

Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of December? Flip the script on the “busy season” and rediscover the joy of holiday magic with this simple tradition: a colorful, visual holiday calendar. Designed to help kids feel grounded and excited, this festive tool transforms the season from over-scheduled to magical. Whether it’s planning recitals, Zoo Lights, or gingerbread houses, this tradition curates moments of connection, wonder, and joy for the whole family. Learn how a few markers and some paper can make December unforgettable.

The Morning 5 is exactly what is sounds like—a short checklist of five tasks my kids do every morning before school. Think of it as a bite-sized morning routine designed to help them feel accomplished and ready for the day, while keeping our stress levels at bay.

The Morning 5 is a game-changer for stress-free school mornings!